Video – I’m giving up on dating!

When people get frustrated with their dating results, I often hear that they just want to give up on dating. When asked "why?" the answer is "Because there are no more good men (or women) left! They're all taken." Not only is this type of thinking a major limiting...

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Financial conversations with loved ones

When is it a good time to have a heart-to-heart conversation with your loved ones about finances? My response to that question usually goes something like this. "When is now a good time?" As a retired financial advisor, I have some strong opinions on this subject. I...

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What Are You Doing For Valentines Day?

Valentine's Day is the celebration of love and affection! We often celebrate with a loved one or sometimes it's with an acquaintance if we are both single. It has become customary to give the gift of flowers, candy, greeting cards and jewelry. I was having a...

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This isn’t the relationship I was looking for!

#Dating #Love #Loveforalifetime #Relationships "This isn't the relationship I was looking for. It just happened. I feel selfish for wanting to leave." I can't tell you how many times I have heard people say things like this. The reality is that you have made a choice....

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Actions Speak Louder than Words!

Life is all about choices and we are responsible for those choices...for the decisions we make! I hear people complain about their boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife all the time. He does this! She does that! He won't do this! She wont do that! Recently I was...

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Traditions come and go!

#Dating #Love #Relationships #Traditions Traditions come in a variety of shapes and sizes. Some of them involve family, some involve friends, some involve sporting events, some involve holidays and the list goes on. In general, there is something comforting about...

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Stay true to your values, ideals, and yourself!

#Dating #Love #Loveforalifetime #Relationships From time to time I have to be reminded of the life lessons I teach. One of the most important lessons is to remain true to your values, ideals and yourself. When you compromise any one of those things, it reflects your...

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You Aren’t Here Anymore!

"It's been nearly a year since I have seen you and we last talked. Rarely a day goes by that I don't think about you for some reason. It might be the way I make the bed now. It might be the way I wash the dishes or do laundry. It might be the body wash I use in the...

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How to destroy a friendship in 3 dates or less!

#Love #Dating #Sex #Relationships #Friendships If you really want to kill a relationship that hasn't even had a chance to start or to destroy a friendship of many years, just ask for and expect sex! Whether its the first date, the third date or a casual date with a...

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It Takes Courage!

Courage comes in many different forms. Often we think of courage as what the men and women of our military display when they're in combat situations. Many times we think of courage as being able to speak out for or against something when you have an unpopular point of...

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